tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24918253.post4504793612196323631..comments2023-10-20T11:23:11.547-05:00Comments on Fear and Trembling: Imaginary FriendsBenjaminhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10142377311082312242noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24918253.post-13524755323348589962007-02-07T19:04:00.000-06:002007-02-07T19:04:00.000-06:00cheers!cheers!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24918253.post-64766290040711003562007-02-07T10:55:00.000-06:002007-02-07T10:55:00.000-06:00Yeah, I should have emphasized how much work good ...Yeah, I should have emphasized how much work good relationships are. I mentioned it briefly ("we fear the work it will take"), but I didn't develop the point.<br /><br />Those former friends/relationships that we romanticize are so much easier because they require such little work.<br /><br />Wow, there is so much to say on this topic that I don't even know where to start. I'm glad that you get my point.<br /><br />Here's to good relationships!Benjaminhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10142377311082312242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24918253.post-12106949748972841782007-02-05T17:54:00.000-06:002007-02-05T17:54:00.000-06:00i think friendships or male-female relationships a...i think friendships or male-female relationships are just such an awful lot of work that people get tired and that is one of the reasons why they bounce from friend to friend or have imaginary friends as you are saying. i think we want what we can't have and we romanticize (sp) former friends/relationships. when i am mad at steve it is easy to say "well, so and so was so perfect for me because...." or "my friend stacy does so and so, but Jessica never did that..." when really every relationship is hard work and no one is the "perfect friend" or "perfect love". good post ben.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com